Grey's Anatomy - Season 6

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Meredith: [voiceover] According to Elisabeth Kübler-Ross, when we're dying or have suffered a catastrophic loss, we all move through five distinct stages of grief. We go into denial because the loss is so unthinkable we can’t imagine it’s true. We become angry with everyone, angry with survivors, angry with ourselves. Then we bargain. We beg. We plead. We offer everything we have, we offer our souls in exchange for just one more day. When the bargaining has failed and the anger is too hard to maintain, we fall into depression, despair, until finally we have to accept that we’ve done everything we can. We let go. We let go and move into acceptance.

Owen: Mrs. O'Malley, I didn't know him like you knew him. I didn't know him long. But, he had tremendous potential as a trauma surgeon. He was very fast on his feet. He could think and act simultaneously under intense pressure. He had tremendous potential. And, you know, he was impatient. He wanted to become better, faster. He wanted to save more lives. He was good. And he was thoughtful and generous. I think in the end, I think he was heroic and noble. And I liked him very much. And I think he gave you a good read to be very very proud.

AK: Woah.

IS: Oh my God! Derek!

DS: Hey, Hi!

AK: Dude, get a room!

IS: On the stairs? Doesn't that hurt?

MG: Leave us alone, we're newlyweds.

IS: A post it wedding does not make you newlyweds.

DS: You know what... you're newlyweds too. You need your own space.

AK: Dude, what are these?

DS: Key's to my trailer, your new home. Enjoy.

MS: Open up! Open the door Torres. Open the door. I'll keep knocking and potentially damage my million dollar hands.

CT: [crying] My ex husband died, he died. He actually got hit by a bus. George got hit by a bus. And now... now I have to get a new job and I'm never gonna see my friends anymore and Arizona keeps bringing me doughnuts!

MS: Is this place for sale? It's nice.

CT: What?

MS: Oh, nothing.

MG: He grabbed my hand, and he squeezed it, and he wrote with his finger.

DS: He wrote with his finger?

MG: You know... in my hand! He wrote 007.

MB: Wh... Give me... Ok... what did I write?

MG: Joe?

MB: No! No I did no write Joe!

Everyone: [talking at once] Are you serious? It could not be him? How do you know?

MS: This is funny.

RW: Did anyone try and call O'Malley? Can we get him on the phone?

MG: I'm telling you he squeezed my hand.

MB: Shut it! You don't get to talk anymore. You don't get to talk ever again.

MH: I could have sworn it was George.

CY: I got his voicemail.

LG: He's not answering.

CT: He has a freckle on his right hand, it's shaped like Texas. I used to tease him about it. I'll check.

MS: You want a ride home?

LG: I was gonna clean out his locker. Give his stuff to his Mom but, I was a bad friend. To George. I was about as good a friend to him as Clara's friends, who keep sending post cards from the trip she'll never get to take. I just... I... I abandoned him completely. I... I... I just moved out and stopped talking to him. Why? Because, because he didn't think I was as hot I thought he was? Because he... he didn't love me back?

MS: This may be bad timing but I gotta ask. What did that guy have? I mean, he wasn't much to look at. But, you and Stevens and Torres. Tell the truth. Was he... you know... hung?

LG: That's...

MS: I know, I said bad timing.

LG: I...

MS: But seriously, he was kind of a dorky little dude.

LG: Stop! Stop talking [laughing].

CT: She's strong enough. She's strong enough, and you have to tell her.

AK: Why? It can wait.

CT: No! It can't. It can't wait because George's organs are not gonna be viable for long. If they want to use them they have to do it soon and I have to decide if they get to use them. And, I need Izzie to help me, because she's the one who should decide. She's who should decide. So that's one reason. And... the other reason is... Karev, if you let them unplug George without giving her a chance to say goodbye, I mean it, she will never forgive you. You have to tell her!

AK: You can't tell her!

MG: Alex.

AK: She coded in my arms. Out of nowhere, she died. Just... I'll tell her. I'll tell her when she gets stronger.

IS: [calls from her room] Alex...

AK: You ok?

IS: I had a dream. He was in his uniform.

AK: What?

IS: George is gonna die in the Army if we don't stop him. Hand me my phone, I need my phone.

IS: [on phone] George, it's me. You know, I pretty much died not too long ago so I need you to call me back. Please. I know, I played the cancer card. I'm gross. Whatever.

AK: I need to tell you something, and I need you to not panic. I need you to keep breathing. I need you to stay alive. I swear to god, I need you to stay alive. Alright?

IS: Ok.

AK: O'Malley, he got in an accident. He's brain-dead.

IS: I'm sorry, what?

CT: What about his heart?

 [Izzie nods]

CT: Ok. His eyes? I know... don't wanna imagine him without his eyes.

IS: George would give everything. His skin, his eyes, he would give everything.

Scrub Nurse: The patient is George O'Malley, 29, procedure is organ recovery for donation. I will call on the receiving surgeons. Kidneys.

Dr #1: St Luke's Children's.

MB: Who’s it for?

Dr #1: Sorry?

MB: Who are his kidneys for?

Dr #1: I gave all that to the nurse.

MB: I would like you to tell me.

Dr #1: Molly Kemper, 8 years old, hypo-plastic kidneys.

MB: Thank you. Lungs?

Dr #2: Lungs and heart are going to Portland Medical Center. Terry Class, aged 22. Cystic fibrosis.

MB: Liver?

MG: You're laughing?

AK: She's laughing.

IS: [laughing] George is dead! He's dead! They're about to put him in the ground and the priest is doing classic rock lyrics! And that girl, that redhead, is crying harder than his mother and she never even met him!

CY: You are far more twisted than I ever realized.

IS: You got married on a post-it!

MG: I got married on a post-it.

CY: You guys got married for real!

IS: I got cancer!

AK: O'Malley got hit by a bus! [all laugh hysterically]

Meredith: [voiceover] In medical school, we have a hundred lessons that teach us how to fight off death, and not one lesson on how to go on living.

Meredith: [voiceover] The dictionary defines grief as keen mental suffering or distress over affliction or loss; sharp sorrow; painful regret. As surgeons, as scientists, we’re taught to learn from and rely on books, on definitions, on definitives. But in life, strict definitions rarely apply. In life, grief can look like a lot of things that bear little resemblance to sharp sorrow.

IS: Get up. I mean it get up. Get up. Now go get a life.

Amanda: I can’t

IS: George was a surgeon. He had a purpose he wanted to save lives and now he doesn’t get the chance. Now he doesn’t get the chance to do anything anymore. You do. You could go to medical school you know. You could hang out with your freaking friends, I don’t care what you do. Just go do something with your life because you have one. You lived. You lived and George didn’t and I know…I know..I know that feels horrible and shocking and terrifying but you lived. So go live your freaking life.

Amanda: I don’t know how.

IS: Nobody does. Nobody knows how. But god have enough respect for George to figure it out cuz if I ever see you sitting on this bench again I will kick your ass from here to Sunday.

AK: [to IS] You died in my arms. You died in my arms, you freakin' died and then you left instructions that i wasn't allowed to save your life. You wanna know what I'm scared of? I'm scared of everything! I'm scared to move! I'm scared to breathe! I'm scared to touch you! I can't lose you. I won't survive. And that's your fault. You made me love you, you made me let you in, and then you freakin' die in my arms!

RW: I know you all have heard a lot of rumors, and I'm sorry for that. What I'm about to say will be hard to hear, and I'm sorry for that as well. The economic climate is... well you all know what it is. In the coming weeks Seattle Grace Hospital will be merging with Mercy West. I wish I could tell you you'll all survive the merger, but there are only so many jobs. And the board and I have some tough choices to make. I'm on your side people. I'm rooting for every one of you. All I can say is please, be at your very best.

CY: I... I can't get back on Bailey's service. I mean, she's still not even looking at me.

OH: Cristina, give it time. I mean, you know, she was closer to O'Malley and she has more...

CY: Yeah, I know but she's... it's not even about O'Malley. She's mad at me about Ceviche.

OH: [laughing] You've gotta stop that.

Dr Wyatt: Ceviche?

CY: It's a patient.

OH: Ah, a boating accident victim. She thinks that it's ok to call her a seafood dish. Is that ok?

Dr Wyatt: Well, it's pretty dark.

CY: Oh come on. I'm dark? I'm not the one going around choking people in their sleep.

LG: I'm worried about Clara. She's depressed, but like a whole new level of depressed. I don't know what to do.

CY: Are you talking about Ceviche?

LG: That... [Cristina signs the propeller hitting Clara's stomach] Oh my god! That's... that is so rude. Ceviche? That is so... that... it... that... that's rude. That is SO RUDE!

CY: What? Anyone else I can offend?

LG: Are you really gay? Like, how gay are you? On a scale of 1 to gay? 'Cause that's my boyfriend in the shower. My hot, hot, naked boyfriend and I... How gay are you?

CT: I'm sorry. It's... I've known Mark a while and... But, I'll try not to do that again. The naked in the shower thing.

LG: Or, the you half naked in the hallway thing. Cause, cause even if you really are gay. He's not, and you're hot.

CT: He doesn't look at my boobs anymore. The first thing he used to look at when I walked into anywhere, was my boobs. He doesn't look anymore. Not since he met you. Ok?

LG: Ok.

IS: I'm wishing for a brain tumor. I'm wishing all the time for a giant tumor that would just press down on my brain and make me hallucinate George. So that I could talk to him again, so I could laugh with him again. I miss him so much. I miss him all the time, and I just want to feel better. Even for a minute you know, I just want to be a person who isn't wishing for a brain tumor. Just for one minute. And, I can't drink because of the cancer meds, I don't do drugs, I can't even work right now. I don't have any distractions. I'm sad, and I miss George. So please, please, come inside and help me feel better.

AK: Dude, are you crying?

AR: I have authority issues. Walk away Karev!

LG: [voiceover] Grief may be a thing we all have in common, but it looks different on everyone.

MS: It isn’t just death we have to grieve. It’s life. It’s loss. It’s change.

AK: And when we wonder why it has to suck so much sometimes, has to hurt so bad. The thing we gotta try to remember is that it can turn on a dime.

IS: That’s how you stay alive. When it hurts so much you can’t breathe, that’s how you survive.

DS: By remembering that one day, somehow, impossibly, you won’t feel this way. It won’t hurt this much.

MB: Grief comes in its own time for everyone, in its own way.

OH: So the best we can do, the best anyone can do, is try for honesty.

MG: The really crappy thing, the very worst part of grief is that you can’t control it.

AR: The best we can do is try to let ourselves feel it when it comes.

CT: And let it go when we can.

MG: The very worst part is that the minute you think you’re past it, it starts all over again.

CY: And always, every time, it takes your breath away.

MG: There are five stages of grief. They look different on all of us, but there are always five.

AK: Denial.

DS: Anger.

MB: Bargaining.

LG: Depression.

RW: Acceptance.